This week, we will be concluding on how best men can cultivate good penis maintenance culture. Before anything else, I would like to submit here that it is very important not to believe what other men say about their performance. This is because many men create distorted pictures of high level of sexual and penis performance, thus making other men wind up thinking that their sex life is missing something. No! this is far from the truth most of the time.
It is not true that great sex universally produces the same feeling and experience for everyone. As a matter of fact, great sex is in the eye of the beholder, inasmuch as men think about sex approximately 19 times per day. For many husbands, great sex might be the ability to produce fantabulous multiple orgasms in their wives; it could also be by being able to last for uninterrupted strong 15 minutes thrusting, which is the ideal timing for good ejaculation. This is not only needful but healthy for the penis. Now, if you have difficulty reaching this level, you may call me for the natural technicality and methods. The inability to differentiate universal differences makes men to be plagued with self-doubt, clinging to myths and misperceptions about sex, sexuality, and penis performance level.
One of the reasons the penis performs badly is when the man thinks that his wife is always ready for sex or that sex with his wife should always end in orgasm. When you mentally condition your penis to perform that way and the penis meets up with an unwilling co-pilot and this situation goes on for a while, the penis loses its potentiality, strength and confidence. So instead of pairing up the penis with an unwilling vagina, first prepare a willing vagina.
Begin with a pillow talk and make the vagina to be fully expectant after which you introduce the penis. By this action, the penis performance is always pronounced, because it is focusing more on pleasurable sensation and this immediately removes all inhibitions such as eye-gazing, body massaging, sensual breathing and sweet low/deep talks. Amazingly, a lot of wives are very responsive to their husbands’ voice during deep penetrative sex. According to research, this act actually helps to tighten the vaginal wall during thrusting in and out. This is because if a man has verbal ability and can entice a woman through his voice, that same ability connects the whole being of the woman to her man during deep penetration, making her to tightly cling to him even with her vaginal wall.
Avoid penis shrinkers; do not smoke. Men who smoke have shrinking penis more than non-smokers. One reason, of course, is that smoking is a known cause of impotence. And there’s some evidence that smoking affects erection size. Inasmuch as some wives may be silent about the size, many prefer their husbands’ manhood to be big. If it is not as big as their desire, it should at least not be smaller than what they first saw. Researchers have found out that smokers’ penises are significantly smaller than non-smokers. In addition to damaging blood vessels, smoking may cause damage to penile tissue itself, making it less elastic and preventing it from stretching.
Do not keep a mistress. It’s common for married men who start having affairs to stop having erections. It is very common; in fact, sex therapists and doctors who treat erectile dysfunction often discover that many of their patients getting sexual favour outside their marriage perform way below those who maintain a marriage sexual relationship. Unless your wife knows about, approves of such affairs (I have yet to meet with such), you’re bound to feel at least a little guilty about sex outside marriage when you’re with the other. Guilt can turn to anxiety and that can kill performance, especially with the legal wife.
Fight diabetes to the utmost level. More than 50 per cent of all men with diabetes are impotent. The disease hits the penis with a double blow. It accelerates the process of arterial disease and it slows the transmission of stimuli along nerves throughout your body. And, trust me, a numb penis is not a happy penis. Staying trim is the best way to avoid diabetes. If it’s too late for that, be vigilant in checking your blood sugar. Men who are careless about controlling their levels have 70 per cent more erection problems than those who stay on top of it.
Yes, men love to go deep and hard but it may amuse you to know that aiming your erect penis at the trunk of a tree is roughly the same density as hitting hard on your wife’s pubic bone. Therefore, do not rupture the corposa cavernosa, the elongated erectile chambers that run the length of your penis. A complete rupture will require surgery within 24 hours to stop internal bleeding and reduce the risk of permanent damage. A partial tear may cause problems later on. As the linings of the corposa heal over with scar tissue, they lose their elasticity—leading to curvature, pain, and eventually impotence. By some estimates, more than a third of impotent men have a history of penile trauma.
To protect yourself, be careful when your wife is on top. That’s the position most likely to cause damage.
QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
Is sperm a healthy protein supplement?
I have been drinking sperm for some time now because I was told it is a good source of protein. But for some months now, I have been having series of infections spreading from my face to other parts of my body. Can you kindly tell me what to use to prevent this spread of infection?
Tobiloba Tochukwu
To prevent spread of infection is not as difficult as to making sure you stop the intake of sperm product. Sperm semen and sperm cells are not natural supplement or protein that gives good health. Sperm is not meant to be swallowed like pap or akamu. It is a product that should go into the vagina and make babies. You have to first stop swallowing sperm immediately. Besides, how sure are you of the state of health of those people you swallow their sperm and semen? They may be carriers of sexually transmitted diseases and spread them to you also. If I may also advise, I think you may be into sex slavery because a teenager should be in school and not be involved in sexual stuff. It will be proper if you can set yourself free and run away from such a bondage. You definitely need more than medical help; your mind needs to be re-orientated all over again because you are not living a normal life.
His demands are always bizarre
My husband asks me to perform oral sex on him even if I do not like it or we do not have full-blown sexual intercourse. I think God designed sexual intimacy for mutual pleasure, is my feelings not important also? His position is that if I loved him, I would see performing oral sex as an act of love and it would not matter if it led to intercourse. I am not opposed to oral sex, but I feel cheapened when he asks for it outright as if I am a call girl. Am I silly to feel this way, or what do you think?
Ojodunaya Celina
I believe that oral-genital stimulation is an acceptable form of sexual play from a medical, physiological and theological point of view. The issue of mutuality is an important component of sexual intimacy. It applies not only to form of stimulation, but also to frequency, initiation and preference of location. It sounds as though you perceive your husband’s desire for oral stimulation as a self-centred demand for service. However, I think you need to have a full understanding of the male psyche and sexuality. Men have not only a high sexual drive with sexual thoughts occurring frequently throughout the day, but they are also bombarded with sexual images, attractions and distractions that they may build fantasies around. Because of this, your husband may be expecting you to seize the opportunity with him by gratifying his desire to “give him” orally. I think perhaps he just wants to share his sexual fantasies and ideas with you his sweetheart. I would rather you see those desires not as demands, but as opportunities to show selfless love. Therefore, instead of refusing his demand, why not just say, ‘I want us to be closer sexually. If this is what you want, then let’s have it.’
How can I view my wife’s vagina while having orgasm?
I like to view my wife’s’ vagina especially when she is having orgasm. This has been the wish of both of us for sometimes now. But I have been trying to figure out how best to achieve this. I cannot possibly do this while having sex with her. Is there any other way out? Please this is so important to my wife and me. Until I achieve this, I don’t think I have granted her wish. Do you have any idea?
Strange Couple
Very simple; first feed her black licorice. Some people spell it as liquorice. It is a natural vegetable all around us. Black licorice has been shown to speed up female genital blood flow by 40 per cent, making the woman highly aroused and popping up the entire organ for good visual. Besides, it helps them lose any inhibition; it is as if she is drunk with wine. Then to properly position yourself, you can use a chin rest method to view every nook and cranny of the vulva inside out.
All you will do is put one pillow under her hips and another under your chest. It’s easier for her to then adjust her knees and legs. Rest your chin on your fist and use a finger to put pressure on the bottom of her vagina to heighten her sensation.
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