One thing I need to emphasise is the fact that special Xmas preparation will fail if and when couples [especially wives] are attached to traditions, norms and customs. Tradition has placed a stigma on any woman who tries to openly voice her sexual desire, especially in a traditional marriage environment. Because of this, many wives have lost their sexual confidence and libido. What presents itself in a typical marriage is a sex bed where the woman is only to be seen and not heard. She is expected to just lie like a log of wood or like a corpse ready for the mortuary. Yet, many husbands are dying to see their wives show them hot sexual stuff. It is not a taboo for a wife to be extremely active when it comes to sex. When wives realise how sex is important to the well being of their husbands, then they will put everything into action this Xmas period.
For the wives, if you also notice that sexual rage is inside you, do not curtail it; show it off, display it; it is the only way to achieve a satisfying sexual relationship this festive period and bond you together; the man will be forever glued to you.
As your mind is contemplating a perfect Xmas, put your hands to action; they speak volumes by just obeying various actions. For instance when you want to kiss your husband, using your hands as a wife is one of the crucial skills of spicing the sex bed during this period. Passionate wives know how, when and where to touch and seldom have idle hands. As a wife, from the moment your husband starts kissing you, you should already be grasping his hip, caressing his arm, back or thigh, or sliding your finger around the nape of his neck. From caressing to grabbing or tender scratching, there are countless ways that you can increase the pleasure of any given moment by getting your hands involved because those hands are exceptionally gifted. In addition to using your hands to enhance every aspect of doing the deed, bringing your husband to orgasm via manual stimulation is a highly underrated experience. Manual stimulation allows a wife to closely watch her husband’s reactions and this gives the wife a clue as to the kind of stimulation he needs to climax during thrusting in and out.
Don’t be afraid to go beyond using your fingertips. The penis shaft is usually more responsive to an encompassing full-hand hold.
When it is time to get your fingers on your husband’s penis and do wonders with it, cunningly do that by rubbing it deliberately through his pants or by working your hands down the front of his jeans, boxers, or trousers, wrapping your fingers around it and begin to cuddle, do it softly so that you are not pulling on the skin. The secret of this is that such penis gets hard and erect within seconds. When you notice it is hard and erect, you can play and gently squeeze the penis or even wag it from side to side. You will notice that the more you do this, the more the penis gets harder, turgid and even longer. Even if your husband has been suffering from weak erection and loss of sensitivity, this action has been documented to help it to a greater degree. But you should never be overly rough or rub it too quickly or too tightly without adequate lubrication. Many couples take to the use of Vaseline to prevent dryness of the vagina; please there are better lubricants. For better choice of lubricants, please call me. For couples who love public display of affection, the hand-job is one of the few sexual acts a wife can engage in. A little under-the-table groping can be a lot of fun, as long as privacy is ensured. This is a great way to get hot before getting home, whenever there is any outing during this festive period.
When wives complain they do not know what else to do with their husband’s bodies, I tell them that they can bring their men to the brink of paradise and keep them dangling there in heavenly suspense until they beg for mercy by giving them series of complete tantalising attention. This attention can be passed over in a way that the men would realise that their wives would want them to give such back; a good turn deserves another. So start by caressing his penis carefully, not absentmindedly. Ironically, it is during this important moment that many wives are either absentminded or remember the food on the fire. This action makes many husbands go for call girls who will give them undivided attention and more than they ask for.
Pay attention to how he is responding; give him more of what makes him breathe faster, moan or sigh. If he is circumcised, use a slow, light, up-and-down stroke when his penis is not lubricated. You can also just trail your fingers up the length of the shaft and over and around the head.
Since most men get erection first thing in the morning, you can set your alarm 15 minutes before you have to be up, strip down, take his hand in yours, and gently guide it over your body, lingering on your nipples and your clitoris. It is a big bang way to wake him up. Many husbands love women who crave pleasure and take matters into their own hands…literally. Thank God it is festive period; there will be no need to rush to work.
With your mind initiating good thought, fine-tune his touch during foreplay, guide his hand to your clitoris, and show him how to touch you with the rhythm and firmness you like. Men are goal-oriented, so they often figure it out faster, which is why it is important for you to set the tone. It has been observed that many wives do not like to open wide their legs completely. Please, open up so extensively that everything will pop up from wherever they are located [this is especially needful for wives who have undergone female genital mutilation]. When you open up very wide enough for the man to see, every remnant of the clitoris comes out clearly. And if you direct your husband to just suck this area gently, you will always wish this holiday never ends.
Try pressing and releasing his fingertip against your clitoris several times, then use his finger to make small circles in either direction to hit all of your nerves. For a twist that will turn you on, lie facing each other, take his penis and use the tip of it to demonstrate how you like your clitoris to be touched. Manipulate his moves. When it comes to intercourse, it is easy to let clitoral action fall by the wayside, since the majority of positions fail to hit that hot spot. Moreover, that lack of contact is the main reason why so many wives have trouble reaching orgasm while doing the deed. To get clitoral stimulation during sex, hop on top, and have him stroke your clitoris (the thumb works well here). In the missionary position, grab his buttocks, and guide him to thrust slowly and deeply so your clitoris rubs against his pelvic bone. During doggie-style, he can reach around with one hand and firmly press two fingers on your clitoris for added sensation while he thrusts to help take you over the edge.
Husbands, I need to drum this into your hearing; what most wives want in bed is a man who knows how to control the timing of his ejaculation while love play is on, so that both spouses will get the maximum pleasure from sex. One major reason why many wives are not active sexually is because their anticipated sexual escapade/ thrill is frustrated, cut short and curtailed by their husbands’ inability to control their ejaculation timing. But husbands, do you know that it is easy to develop complete self-control so that you can actually choose when to ejaculate during sex? When you have this level of control, your sexual self-confidence will be so high that you can confidently satisfy your wife in bed any time! All you need do is ask from the experts; so get in touch with me.
Another way of doing this is to focus on the backside of your wife during foreplay; I am referring to her buttocks and the backside of her body. Most husbands probably usually focus on the front side of their wives’ body, which means they are neglecting a lot of nerve endings. So husbands, try standing behind your wife and start kissing the nape of her neck, then slowly move down her spine. This also puts you in the perfect position to reach around and cup her breasts or stimulate her manually. Do you know this particular position and the ‘bend down’ position give the couples most pleasure if the husband has a small penis or alternatively, a large penis? Yes it does. For instance, if the penis is too big, it is advisable to also try rear entering while you both are still standing. This helps to make sure the whole penis is not fully inserted but just the tip of the penis will be directly lying within the tip of the vagina. If the penis is small, the wife should bend down completely to the extent of touching her toes with the palms of her hands. By this, the small penis will enter fully into the remaining part of the vagina since half of the woman’s vagina is already bent over with her posture.
Variety of missionary positions with breathing exercise will help many husbands to last longest if they tend to ejaculate quickly. This same position stimulates a wife’s G-spot especially if the husband is very calm and thrusts in such a way that each stroke of the thrusting is directly rubbing on the shaft of the clitoral wall. If any husband understands this technique, it is more likely your wife will reach orgasm during intercourse many more times than you do. This position also helps those who want to achieve pregnancy on time. One interesting thing about this missionary position is that each partner can do three erotic things at the same time while thrusting in and out without interruption? For instance, during thrusting in and out, the husband can at the same time suck the wife’s breast, caress the clitoris with the shaft of the penis without stopping the flow. The wife can also be sucking on one of her husband’s breasts and at the same time using her hands to caress the second breast of her husband while she is moving her hip up to welcome the incoming thrusting in and out.
By Fumi Akingbade
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