The Yuletide season is almost round the corner. Sales are on, special vacations are being planned and Christmas trees are all over the place, all in the spirit of the season.
But then, one area couples should not leave out this season is planning for some special mind blowing sexual treats. Imagine what sex would be like if every time you made love this festival period, you enjoyed fulfilling sex and real connection with your spouse – the kind of sex that satisfies you both at the deepest level; sex that is about feeling of love; sex from the soul to the soul. Imagine what it will mean to your sex life when you know various unbelievable, incredible and fantastic ways you can pleasure yourselves; such pleasure that can take you both to the highest level of sexual contentment and you both wish the holiday will never end.
Since men are not doing so badly in this area, I want to however groom the wives on some sexual surprises they can prepare alongside the jollof rice, vegetable salad, fruits salad and the likes.
Husbands are never tired and they don’t refuse anything new coming from their wives especially now that they will be home without work pressure and stress. They would want their wives to bend down low, take their sexual tools (penis) and pleasure them down there below. They want fantastic sex this period of the year to help revive, reenergise and reactivate them for the next year.
In a summary, they want a total overhauling of their sexual organs. Besides that, this action will make them healthier; it will make them look younger and help them provide more for the home.
So wives, here we go!
To prepare for the treat, start off with a surprise. Do you know that mere licking your husband’s spine from top to bottom, especially when your tongue is close to his buttocks, can set him ablaze? Well, most wives never found out the tips and tricks that make sex wildly passionate and they never learnt how to truly entertain their husbands.
In fact, many wives have never discovered how good sex can actually be. There are so many wonderful ways spouses can share provoking sex together. These ways can strengthen couple’s relationship and keep them in good health.
For instance, while your husband is on the phone, stroll in and undress seductively in front of him or stand behind him. Take hold of his penis without saying a word and begin to kiss it and stroke it. Make sure you are wearing a short skirt with no underwear.
Tell him that, at some point, you are going to bend over and you would want him to take you then and there and that you want it hot, sizzling and fiery! In addition, you can bend over the arm of a sofa and have your husband take you from behind. Make this move more passionate by sitting him down with his legs open, straddle him and lower yourself onto his open laps and make sure the penis goes straight into your vagina. If he does not miss his target, it will feel as if a parachute just entered you. Have him wrap his legs around your buttocks as you wrap yours around his waist. Thrust back and forth while rotating your hips. Lightly take a caressing grip on your husband’s nipples during sex and calmly squeeze them concurrently with every thrust. The mix of erotic pleasure on his nipples and the pleasure of thrusting in and out undoubtedly, take many husbands over the top.
Make sex a mini erotic time together. Take a sip of red wine, don’t swallow it immediately, and then drop a mint into your mouth with the wine. Gaggle the wine before you swallow then put his penis in your mouth. You would notice that the bubbles would dissolve the mint faster and your tongue would produce a tingly feel that would make him almost explode when you put his penis in your mouth and gently lick it seductively. Wives, please your husband’s penis is all yours as a tool to play with; do not be afraid to touch it. Take hold of it in an erotic manner and playfully but gently run it over your neck, breasts, thighs, and tip of your vagina before returning it to your tongue. Act pleasurably by surprising him with some erotic moaning like mmmmm or ooohhhh while touching his penis. This always enhances his performance. Rub lotion along your inner thighs, and have him slide his penis in and out between them. When a wife fondles her breasts in front of her husband, it turns an average sex into awesome sex. If she now licks them or flicks her tongue toward her nipples, it becomes out of this world for many husbands. If you would ask me, I would frankly tell you that these and many more are the tricks of ‘call girls’.
While in missionary position, wife, hold your husband’s buttocks and pull him in. Tell him to thrust faster until he climaxes. Then, after he has ejaculated, he should begin to stroke your clitoris to make you reach orgasm.
Some husbands love how it feels to enter you. Next time you have sex, ask him to pull out after 12 thrusts and use your tongue to caress his penis for a few seconds. Then let him penetrate again. Most men have the most orgasm when their wives caress their scrotum concurrently when the man is thrusting in and out. Have you tried this out yet, what are you still waiting for? The torture of scrotal stimulation while they are inside their wives can be unexplainably splendid. So wives, whenever you make some gasping sound as your husband slips inside you, it is as if you have been aching for them all day.
To regulate or control the thrusting movement, hold tighter for deeper penetration and gently rub to slow things down.
In missionary position, raise your legs straight up toward the ceiling, and close them together. This angle lets him go deeper and makes you feel tighter. While lying side by side, grab one of his hands, and use it to stimulate your clitoris. Then take his other hand, and guide his first two fingers inside you. This positions your palm flat against his member’s sensitive underside. Then do a few things he cannot do himself, like whisper in his ear, kissing his ear lobes and kissing his back.
Some husbands have sex for different reasons and one of them is to be soothed and comforted.
Giving your husband a quickie is like releasing a pent-up, bottled-up passion like an earthquake. It gets your husband’s adrenaline rushing; it is over in a flash and leaves him weak in the knees. Just pull his penis out of the opening in his boxers and push your panties aside. All you need for successful second round of sex is to start giving his penis undivided attention.
The best penis attention is a huge turn on for husbands especially when they realise that their wives are enjoying the experience. The main trick of pleasuring the penis consist of sliding your mouth up and down on the head and shaft of the penis, letting your saliva provide the moisture necessary to do this smoothly.
Beside the mouth, carefully placed hands also enhance the experience. Like the clitoris, the husband’s penis responds to different type of contacts, connections and interactions at different times, on different locations and on different days. Sometimes, fast and hard will turn him on the most; sometimes, he will prefer slow and soft.
You can bring your husband to orgasm simply by sliding the head of his penis and an inch or so of the shaft, in and out of your mouth. There is no need to take in any more than what is comfortable for you. With just the head of the penis held loosely between your lips, tilt your head first to one side and then the other side so that your mouth massages the penis with either a quick or a slow circular stroke.
Many wives want to know the best position to take for this wonderful task. Just do any one that works. Whether you are facing your husband’s feet, head, or kneeling in front of him, which is a classical position; there are lots of simple things you can do to intensify the fantastic feeling of pleasuring him. Caress his balls, play with his pubic hair, or stroke his thigh. You can also enhance his enjoyment by pressing the base of his penis.
Husband love it when a wife plays with his penis as though it is her favourite toy. While pleasuring him, take a few seconds to hold and squeeze it, paddle it from side to side, rub your face against it or use your hand to slap it gently against your tongue. Of course, you have to be wise about this so you do not piss him off; the objective is to create fun. You can slide a moisture penis in, over or between your breasts. Push your breasts together to create a fleshy groove for his penis to slide up and down while your vagina is resting or getting ready for the real thing. To be continued next week.
By Fumi Akingbade.
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